Beaches of Southern Goa…

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They are all lovely…..the south is much quieter than the north…and the beaches not as busy…that is why we like itIndia-goa 022… the main ones are Agonda, Palolem and Patnem beaches….with a number of smaller ones along the way.

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Palolem  beach is walking distance to Patnem…it has more things happening there…and thus busier and nosier at times…Agonda is about 20 km north and is also becoming quite popular….

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My favourite beach is Turtle Beach…a sanctuary for the turtles to lay their eggs…and about a 20 minute 042scooter ride from Patnem. Each year a few new restaurants are there but because of the turtle sanctuary, there never will be a large hotel complex…hopefully…just a few new huts to stay in..  goa 016goa 032
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It is also possible to walk from Patnem and take a short boat ride across the river entrance…and then keep walking along the beach.011

and every beach has wonderful sunsets..every night different but always beautiful..India-goa 041


Chaudi…where we shop..etc

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Chaudi, a bustling town, where one can get a feeling of India without being too overwhelmed by it all, is about 2k m from Patnem Beach.  An easy bike road or scooter ride to get there…usually dodging a few bison or cows along the goa 080way.

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Goa is a huge fishing state..and the fish market in Chaudi usually has a great selection of fish if you get there early enough.

Besides shopping, Chaudi is also important for getting cash…with about five different banks to choose from.

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We also go there for the post office, hair cuts, a doctor or dentist, pharmacy, bus station or whatever else we may need.

The Village of Patnem….

011 Well… I would have to say that the Chai Shop is usually the first stop for most of the regulars arriving back for another winter season….Ashant Fondekar, runs the shop with his brother, Prashant and father, Anandu.  Always friendly, he usually greets us by name and a “welcome back”….They work hard feeding the tourists and locals…6am – 8pm daily…and earlier during monsoon season when the locals stop by before heading out to fish. goa 004 Fresh chai tea, fried egg on a bun, banana bread,  baji, a lentil type soup, samosas,  cookies…all available for under 50 rupees (less than a dollar)….no wonder  its packed every morning. goa 057 goa 009 India 085My little Israeli neighbour likes the egg on a bun.    The school kids wait for their bus just outside, buying snacks before it comes.  

Next store  is a busy little grocery shop run by their cousin, Kisan Fondekar.  Another very popular spot in the mornings for fresh milk, yogart…etc.  Its amazing what he stocks in that store.  If you need something, just ask…and most often he has it. goa 058 goa 055 goa 001You never know what you’ll see parked outside the shop.goa 004 If you dont drive a scooter to get around, you usually call a rickshaw or tuk tuk. (same thing).  Some of us have our favourite drivers whogoa 003we call regularly…here is Shirish,  popular with many.   His wife runs a laundry …sometimes peoples knickers are found drying on top of one of his tuk tuks…..

According to google, Goa is 66% Hindu…Patnem has two small Hindu temples and several in the outlying area.598

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Many people stay in beach huts;  however, I preferred to rent somewhere with cooking facilities so the last couple years have been staying in Ismaels house; a spacious flat with high ceilings, just a two minute bike ride to the beach.

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What do we do here all day long ……lots of lying around in the heat of the day….as well as many other things….

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Yoga… high up with the coconut trees….

and playing Backgammon almost daily…here’s my friend wishing he’d never taught me the game after beating him two days in a row….

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This year I became involved in some very active fundraising efforts for the families of more than 31 migrant workers who lost their lives in a very tragic building collapse in nearby Chaudi.  The expat community rallied in a wonderful way to raise very urgently needed funds for these people;  to send to the widows as well as provide funds for medical care, food, transportation, etc for the surviving workers left stranded by their employer.   It vividly brought to light the plight of migrant workers world-wide; who are usually the last to receive any help, if anything at all.

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Slowly Patnem is becoming like a second home for me….

NEXT…the surrounding beaches…

GOA…or India Light

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I’ve been thinking about posting for awhile, but guess I’ve been enjoying the laid-back lifestyle a little too much…goa 028

After 3 days in busy Mumbai, it felt wonderful to arrive in Goa…like a breathe of fresh air…667

Patnem Beach, south Goa, is becoming like a second home…many of my friends come regularly to escape the cold at home.India-goa 004

Im greeted with friendly “welcome back” from the local shopkeepers and restaurants…they even remember my name…something im not great at doing…that is remembering the names of others..


One of the first stops most visitors make is the local cellphone store…to request a SIM card…which now means a wait of 3-5 days for foreigners. The most popular shop in Chaudi, our local shopping town is the Baba Vodaphone Store…
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…which usually means stepping over a sleeping dog…


..or dodging a bull or cow….just to get into the shop.  The staff here are just incredible…so helpful and friendly..even with a store full of demanding foreigners and Indians.  goa 002

My favourite staff member …  helps me with computer problems,goa 021any inquiries I have, etc…always with a wonderful smile and great service.  I also enjoy watching them light the candles on their alter each morning…goa 018

We rely on good cellphone and Internet service …and thanks to Baba Vodaphone Store…they help us keep in contact with family and friends.

More Goa stories to follow….India-goa 022

Chiapas and San Cristobal de las Casas

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The morning sky was usually beautifully bright blue and clear…with rain in the afternoons.  San Cristobal is at an altitude of 2100 metres so it can be alittle cooler there as well.

You see people of many different indigenous groups throughout the city; with their variety of native dress.san christoble de las casas 082san christoble de las casas 098

Many of them are selling things to the tourists …..and some dont like to have their photo taken….and hide their faces….

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Two interesting places to visit are the Mayan Museum of Traditional Medicine….


And Cisco, an american who started an Orchid rescue sanctuary over 20 years ago…saving many orchid varieties that otherwise would have been destroyed from the deforestation.



Why I went to Mexico…

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I came to meet the newest member of our family – my grandniece Zoel and help her celebrate her 1st birthday….zoel 089

…and her baptism…

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And meet the many members of her  large family in Mexico…

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Her Godparents and Parents

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….and many other members of her extended family in Mexico.  She is very much loved by all.

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Dia de los Muertos – November 1&2


San Cristobal de las Casas, Chiapas,  is where I experienced Day of the Dead.  It didnt offer the special activities found in Oaxaca or Patzcuaro; but I found it interesting enough.

Throughout the city, every restaurant, hotel, store,  public place, etc set up beautiful alters in many different forms.  They all included flowers, fruits, and other food, and a photo of the deceased person being honoured.040043 san christoble de las casas 038san christoble de las casas 064

Families take this time to visit the grave site of departed family members.  It is a time to clean the grave, freshen it up, etc.  I visited the only cemetary in San Cristobal which almost seemed like a small town with the many buildings there.  Unlike the majority of our gravesides in Canada, here there are some very elaborate structures.027014

Everywhere there were fresh flowers.022

A few families were visiting on the gravesite, sharing food, etc.031

One family even had some live Marimba music and dancing.017

In San Juan Chamula, a traditional town nearby, to commerate Day of the Dead, they keep the church bells ringing for these two days.070


I volunteered to help pull the bells, but was told no because I was a woman.100

Halloween is celebrated almost as much as Day of the Dead in San Cristobal.  For several days prior, there were children trick or treating, parades in the main streets, etc.             san christoble de las casas 103

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Day of the Dead was a special celebration to experience and very much brought to mind my own departed family members.